Embracing the Menstrual Cycle: Prioritizing Mental Health and Self-Care for Menstruating People

Throughout history, menstruation has been surrounded by cultural stigmas, myths, and taboos in many societies. These beliefs have contributed to negative perceptions and misconceptions about menstruating people, impacting their self-esteem, body image, and overall mental health. Feeling shame or embarrassment about a natural bodily process can lead to a sense of inadequacy and affect how people perceive themselves. The lack of open dialogue about menstruation may also prevent people from seeking support or sharing their menstrual-related struggles, including emotional challenges. We have a responsibility to challenge and dismantle these cultural stigmas surrounding menstruation. By fostering an open and supportive environment, we can create a safe space for people to discuss their menstrual experiences without judgment or shame. Validating their feelings and normalizing menstruation as a natural part of life can help people feel more empowered and accepted.


Understanding the hormonal impact of the menstrual cycle is essential in this process. Let’s dive in and learn more. During menstruation, which marks the beginning of the menstrual cycle, estrogen and progesterone levels are relatively low. These hormonal shifts can result in physical discomfort, including cramps, fatigue, and headaches. Emotionally, people may experience mood swings and irritability, and for some, feelings of sadness or mild depression might arise due to the hormonal fluctuations.

As menstruation ends, the body enters the follicular phase. During this phase, the pituitary gland releases follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH), signaling the ovaries to prepare and release an egg. Additionally, estrogen levels gradually increase during this phase. The rise in estrogen can lead to improved mood, increased energy, and heightened creativity for many people. The follicular phase is often associated with a sense of renewal and optimism, setting the stage for new possibilities.

Around the middle of the menstrual cycle, ovulation occurs. This is when a surge in luteinizing hormone (LH) triggers the release of an egg from the ovary. Just before ovulation, estrogen levels peak, and some people may experience a surge in sexual desire during this time. Emotionally, people may feel more confident and social during ovulation, which can positively impact their interpersonal relationships.

After ovulation, the body enters the luteal phase. During this phase, the empty follicle transforms into the corpus luteum, which produces progesterone. Progesterone levels rise and remain elevated during the luteal phase. This hormone has a calming effect and can induce feelings of relaxation. However, it can also lead to premenstrual syndrome (PMS) symptoms in some people, such as mood swings, irritability, anxiety, and physical discomfort. These emotional challenges during the luteal phase are common, but they vary from menstruating person to menstruating person.The intricate interplay between estrogen and progesterone with neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine in the brain plays a crucial role in regulating mood and emotional well-being. As these hormones fluctuate throughout the menstrual cycle, they can influence the functioning of neurotransmitters, potentially causing shifts in mood, energy levels, and emotional states at different points in the cycle. Understanding these hormonal influences can empower people and therapists to identify patterns and develop coping strategies for emotional challenges during their menstrual journey. Understanding these hormonal influences enables people to identify patterns and develop coping strategies to manage emotional challenges during different phases of the menstrual cycle. Embracing this awareness empowers people to prioritize self-care and mental well-being throughout their entire menstrual journey, fostering a positive and empowering relationship with their bodies and emotions.

Psychotherapists can play a vital role in educating people about menstrual health, dispelling myths, and providing accurate information. This knowledge empowers people to make informed decisions about their reproductive health and mental well-being. Cultivating body positivity is crucial for people’s mental health, and therapists can help them develop a positive body image by emphasizing that the menstrual cycle is a natural part of life and not something to be ashamed of. For example, embracing the sacred feminine and acknowledging the significance of the menstrual cycle in various cultures and spiritual practices empowers people to appreciate this transformative phase of life. Integrating a holistic approach that embraces mind, body, and spirit can lead to a deeper connection with oneself. In breaking generational patterns, psychotherapy provides an opportunity for people to explore their family’s beliefs and attitudes towards menstruation. Addressing generational patterns and cultural conditioning liberates people from limiting beliefs, enabling them to embrace their menstrual cycles with self-compassion.


Psychotherapists can introduce mindful menstruation practices, such as guided visualizations or self-compassion exercises, to support people in embracing their menstrual cycles as moments of self-discovery and growth. Encouraging people to track their menstrual cycles is a powerful tool for self-awareness and empowerment. Menstrual tracking involves keeping a record of the start and end dates of each period, along with any physical and emotional changes experienced throughout the cycle. Through tracking, people can gain a deeper understanding of their bodies and unique menstrual patterns, identifying recurring patterns and trends. This self-awareness helps people recognize how hormonal changes might influence their emotions, moods, and overall mental health.

Armed with knowledge from tracking, people can anticipate their emotional and physical needs at different points in their menstrual cycle. For example, during the luteal phase, when PMS symptoms may arise, people can proactively implement self-care practices to mitigate mood swings or anxiety. Understanding their cyclical changes empowers people to plan ahead, ensuring they have the support and resources they need during more challenging times.
As therapists, we can guide people in using insights gained from menstrual tracking to develop personalized self-care strategies. People can identify specific self-care practices that resonate with them and are most effective during different phases of their cycle. This may include mindfulness exercises, relaxation techniques, creative outlets, or seeking additional support from loved ones or mental health professionals. Promoting body positivity, menstrual tracking fosters a positive connection with one’s body, emphasizing that the menstrual cycle is a natural and healthy process. Empowering people to understand the fluctuations they experience throughout the month can help shift the perception of menstruation from a burden to an opportunity for growth and self-care.

If you are a menstruating person it’s important to recognize that your emotional well-being during the menstrual cycle is valid and deserves attention. Therapy can offer a safe and supportive space to explore the impact of hormonal fluctuations on your mental health and well-being. By working with a skilled therapist, you can gain valuable insights into how your menstrual cycle influences your emotions, moods, and overall mental state. As you embark on this journey, consider psychotherapy as a valuable tool for self-awareness and empowerment. Therapists can guide you in identifying personalized self-care strategies that resonate with you during different phases of your cycle. Mindful menstruation practices, such as guided visualizations and self-compassion exercises, can help you embrace your menstrual cycle as a time of self-discovery and growth.

#amrtherapy #therapy #onlinetherapy #counseling #onlinecounseling #lgbtqcounseling #lgbtq #sexualidentity #stress #mentalhealth #mentalhealthprofessionals #couplestherapy #adultstherapy #teenagetherapy #seniors #veterans #blackcommunity #peopleofcolor #familytherapy #immigrants #transgender

Phone:  530-637-8678



Related Posts